Addictive sex

hi evereybody! Merry Christmas! and a happy New Year!! so my topic for today is about addictive sex. This topic is for a New year special to you all so enjoy reading

When sex is separated from love and care, it can become addictive. Rather than bringing us close to someone, it becomes a block to intimacy. This kind of sex frequently involves secret agendas. Addictive sex does not open up feelings but is carried out in an attempt to hide them. Participants are not alive and present to themselves or their partners.

Addictive sex is time spent attempting to have orgasm with another body, often while fantasizing someone else. It is skin in search of a “high”. After the high, participants feel  lonely, empty, and often, disgusted. While money may not cross palms directly there is often a covert bargain: “I’ll be sexual if you pretend to care”;” I’ll be nice to you and buy you things if you’re sexual with me”; “I promise not to notice that you’re ripping me off if you’re sexual with me”; “I promise not to leave you if you’re sexual with me.”

Is this the way people want sex? I don’t think so. Why, then , do we continue this loveless, exploitive form of sex? Because of a profound long-standing conditioning in our culture that says sex is love, sex is power, and sex makes us important.

I believe addictive sexual behavior reflects a great spiritual malaise. Addictive sex goes with our belief that things outside us can make us happy. Addictive sex goes with our belief that more, bigger, richer, and faster are better. Addictive sex is  a flight from self-knowledge and from the knowledge that we are exploiting others.

Reading a womans face (SPOTTING THE IOI)

Guys! Do you want to know how to spot IOI of girls?! Well, it must be your lucky day on reading this blog because I’m going to share it to you based on experience. Before you start spotting… reading a woman’s face entails a lot of things.

1.       Observation is key. You are no longer just checking chicks out. You are now employing the first step of the scientific method. Repeat after me: you are not looking, you are seeing.

2.      Ditch the ego. It’s all about the ladies here, and there won’t be room in your head for the minute details you need to spot if it’s all swollen from imagined coolness.

3.      Show genuine interest. Reading body language isn’t like watching animals in the zoo. It’s an interaction. Show the chick she’s got your attention and watch things just flow.

4.       Be sensitive. Again, it’s all about her in here. True, there’s a fine line between picking up signals and overreacting to things, but with a bit of practice you’ll be reading her like today’s headlines.

Face Value

Face reading expert Dadhichi Toth calls this the “structural aspect” of face reading, meaning that face shapes imply specific character traits. Match what you’re into based on these shapes:

ROUND rounder – faced women are generally emotionally dominated and moodier. If youre the touchy-feely type, go for this shape.

OBLONG/SQUARE women with angular face shapes are physical, sporty types. Youre looking at a lady who loves some competition, especially if shes got a strong chin.

TRIANGULAR this lady is an intellectual, big on talking and sharing ideas. Perfect if you fancy keeping things on the cerebral side.

EYE SPY

They don’t call them the windows to the soul for nothing. Probably the easiest feature to assess, given that it’s what you should be looking directly anyway.

 First off: are they shifty? Shes just not into you. If her eyes are a bit smaller than usual it could mean that shes more of the shy type. Larger brown eyes, which Toth says is luckily more volatile temperament, though it could mean she could just use a good plucking. Don’t suggest this though. And if her eyebrows hang low and closer to the eyes, this lady is impulsive.

THE NOSE

Pango just isn’t a good enough description anymore… that cute little button nose or a nose that turns up lightly at the tip shows that she’s a social butterfly. Probably why you’re spotting her at this crowded shindig.

A sharply pointed nose, aka a concord nose, indicates she could be a tease, or someone who thinks it’s funny to play tricks on you, claims Toth. We like calling it the bitch’s, we mean, witch’s nose.

Wide, exposed nostrils are not only distracting; they show a tendency to be a bit loose with money.

LIP SERVICE

Kiss them you eventually shall, “reading” them is a more  immediate activity. Also, you cant go wrong by listening to whats coming out of them.

A thicker upper lip signals a woman who is more of a “giver” in a relationship. And not just in the perverted ways youre thinking of. Consequently, a thinner upper lip show someone who is more of a “receiver”. An overhanging upper lip that protrudes over her lower one could mean that she is, well, a predator. Shell bleed you dry, this one.

Fashion trend

Hey! Hey! Hey! I’m back for discussing more trends nowadays. Ahmm… Ok! So its he 21^st century and we love our gadgets so much, but sometimes we long for the good old fashion days. How do you see the fashion of the people nowadays? Is it retro? Let’s have a recall for the fashion trends in 1970 - 1990

 Let’s go back in 1970’s. Oh yeah! The funky years of our mother and father. Its all about the disco. The bell bottom pants, the Jumpsuit for AH Men, and the Kick pants. Kickin' jeans? Chuck Norris must have loved them, so is my funky father who is a fun of The Beatles. All styles of clothing were affected by the disco style, especially those of men. Men began to wear stylish three-piece suits which were characterized by wide lapels, wide legged or flared trousers, and high-rise waistcoats

How about 1980’s? as I recall this is the Michael Jackson and Madonna’s year. Leotards had been a fashion trend, when were first used to add color and texture under the "layered look". Leotards made from shiny spandex had become the standard feminine fashion of the "disco era", partly for their form-fitting quality and the fact that they allowed flexibility and ease of movement.

In 1990’s, this is my favourite time of the year, because I’m a fan of boy bands and Rap metal bands in this year. In this year men’s fashion is grunge look, street wear, and hip hop. The dominant youth clothing fad at the beginning of the 1990s was fluorescent clothing in blue, green, orange, pink, and yellow. Hoop earrings were also a popular accessory for teenaged girls and women in the first years of the 1990s. Plaid shirts were also popular. Popular colors for girls included coral, hot pink, and turquoise.

Now, which year do you prefer? For me, 1990’s is still the best, not because I was born in this year but because I was influenced mostly by the music and fashion in the 1990’s.

flirt trend (for fun only)

guys! guys! we "boys" really want to address this to girls. coz sometimes girls just don't understand us sometimes right? yesterday when i open my acoount in FB i have read a very interesting status of my friend and which is very true that i noticed nowadays. so, i will just gonna repost it here in blogger.

ATTENTION!! ESPECIALLY TO THE GIRLS

1. Kung muingon mi nga gwapa ka, ayaw dayon tubag ug "atik!"...Panagsa ra mi mu dayg ug gwapa...obyusleh, kung gitawag ka nga "gwapa" naa jud mi enteres nimo...kinsa man sad kuno ang taro......ng nga laki tawagon kang "bati'g nawng!" atubangan sa kadaghanan...Di kaha mi katilaw ug plying kick ana?

2. Mangutana gani mi kung kanus-a imong RD ug kung abelabol ba ka ana, kana nagpasabot kung pwede ba ka ma detdet (DATE ba sa ininggles)...ayaw sa mi baraha kay magutana lagi mi nimu ug strait...amo lang gityming-tyming kay mauwawon man sab tawn mi mga kwanggolon...

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3. Kung nakabantay na ka nga nagsige na mi ug sunod-sunod nimo, maka-baynte na mi ug grit nimo gud morning, or ikaw na lang pirmi tagdon, makig dungan ug uli bisan nort ug sawt, langit ug lupa ang gilay-on sa atong balay wid matching "Ako lang dala sa imo tings beh!", kana ganahan jud mi nimo... Pero sa pirmi natong kinuyog ug detdet (DATE sa ininggles pa), ayaw sad pangutana ug dali-dali "Wat r we?" or sa binisaya pa, "Unsa man jud diay ta?"...Inahak, makulbaan sad mi gamay...we also feel a bit presyur... Kalma lang gud...musulti lagi mi in dyu taym. =)

4. Kung kahibaw na jud ka nga ganahan mi nimo kay nisulti na man jud mi (hala ka!) Ayaw sad sige hisgot sa imo Ex-boypren oi...its hurt man sad...not unlis kung nisturya ka sa panahong gigukod siya sa inyong IRO nga nisutoy siya ug dagan kay por syur I will lap wid u.

6. Sa panahon nga mag-date na tah, por syur kami man jud gasto, be konsyus wid yor dayet ha para konsyus pud mi sa among bulsa...kung kada adlaw na ta date ug nakabantay mo nga chippy ug tubig na lang among gi-order, KKB na ta ha...salamat sa pagsabot.

hahaha!! interesting right?

my first blog!!! Technology trends!

I really don't know what to post on my first blog; I’m trying to brainstorm myself just to think of some relevant topics. But I guess I’m just too lazy to think of it. Teenagers nowadays are too lazy because of the booming technology in the society. IPhones, androids, tablets, ultrabook, etc. This are the most famous technology that teenagers used. We are too lazy to go in the library and research, but instead we just research in the internet to make it more faster and more convenient. How about laptop in the office or anywhere is it too heavy right? Now, they have innovated a new technology that is more convenient to carry and lighter than the usual laptops that we use this is called the ultrabook. Ultrabook is a higher-end type of subnotebook defined by Intel. Ultrabooks are designed to feature reduced bulk without compromising performance and battery life. They use low-power Intel Core processors, solid-state drives, and antibody chassis to help meet this criterion. Due to their limited size, they typically omit common laptop features such as disc drives and Ethernet ports. How about phones? Did you noticed most of our friends or people rich or poor they have the most expensive Smartphones. Why do they like this so much?! Is it for show fun or the features of Smartphones are just too cool. Isn’t it? The purpose of phones nowadays is not just for calling and texting there are a lot of purposes already. Smartphones are built on a mobile operating system, with more advanced computing capability and connectivity than a feature phone. Many modern smartphones nowadays also include high-resolution touchscreens and web browsers that display standard web pages as well as mobile-optimized sites. High-speed data access is provided by Wi-Fi and Mobile Broadband.