Addictive sex

hi evereybody! Merry Christmas! and a happy New Year!! so my topic for today is about addictive sex. This topic is for a New year special to you all so enjoy reading

When sex is separated from love and care, it can become addictive. Rather than bringing us close to someone, it becomes a block to intimacy. This kind of sex frequently involves secret agendas. Addictive sex does not open up feelings but is carried out in an attempt to hide them. Participants are not alive and present to themselves or their partners.

Addictive sex is time spent attempting to have orgasm with another body, often while fantasizing someone else. It is skin in search of a “high”. After the high, participants feel  lonely, empty, and often, disgusted. While money may not cross palms directly there is often a covert bargain: “I’ll be sexual if you pretend to care”;” I’ll be nice to you and buy you things if you’re sexual with me”; “I promise not to notice that you’re ripping me off if you’re sexual with me”; “I promise not to leave you if you’re sexual with me.”

Is this the way people want sex? I don’t think so. Why, then , do we continue this loveless, exploitive form of sex? Because of a profound long-standing conditioning in our culture that says sex is love, sex is power, and sex makes us important.

I believe addictive sexual behavior reflects a great spiritual malaise. Addictive sex goes with our belief that things outside us can make us happy. Addictive sex goes with our belief that more, bigger, richer, and faster are better. Addictive sex is  a flight from self-knowledge and from the knowledge that we are exploiting others.

Reading a womans face (SPOTTING THE IOI)

Guys! Do you want to know how to spot IOI of girls?! Well, it must be your lucky day on reading this blog because I’m going to share it to you based on experience. Before you start spotting… reading a woman’s face entails a lot of things.

1.       Observation is key. You are no longer just checking chicks out. You are now employing the first step of the scientific method. Repeat after me: you are not looking, you are seeing.

2.      Ditch the ego. It’s all about the ladies here, and there won’t be room in your head for the minute details you need to spot if it’s all swollen from imagined coolness.

3.      Show genuine interest. Reading body language isn’t like watching animals in the zoo. It’s an interaction. Show the chick she’s got your attention and watch things just flow.

4.       Be sensitive. Again, it’s all about her in here. True, there’s a fine line between picking up signals and overreacting to things, but with a bit of practice you’ll be reading her like today’s headlines.

Face Value

Face reading expert Dadhichi Toth calls this the “structural aspect” of face reading, meaning that face shapes imply specific character traits. Match what you’re into based on these shapes:

ROUND rounder – faced women are generally emotionally dominated and moodier. If youre the touchy-feely type, go for this shape.

OBLONG/SQUARE women with angular face shapes are physical, sporty types. Youre looking at a lady who loves some competition, especially if shes got a strong chin.

TRIANGULAR this lady is an intellectual, big on talking and sharing ideas. Perfect if you fancy keeping things on the cerebral side.

EYE SPY

They don’t call them the windows to the soul for nothing. Probably the easiest feature to assess, given that it’s what you should be looking directly anyway.

 First off: are they shifty? Shes just not into you. If her eyes are a bit smaller than usual it could mean that shes more of the shy type. Larger brown eyes, which Toth says is luckily more volatile temperament, though it could mean she could just use a good plucking. Don’t suggest this though. And if her eyebrows hang low and closer to the eyes, this lady is impulsive.

THE NOSE

Pango just isn’t a good enough description anymore… that cute little button nose or a nose that turns up lightly at the tip shows that she’s a social butterfly. Probably why you’re spotting her at this crowded shindig.

A sharply pointed nose, aka a concord nose, indicates she could be a tease, or someone who thinks it’s funny to play tricks on you, claims Toth. We like calling it the bitch’s, we mean, witch’s nose.

Wide, exposed nostrils are not only distracting; they show a tendency to be a bit loose with money.

LIP SERVICE

Kiss them you eventually shall, “reading” them is a more  immediate activity. Also, you cant go wrong by listening to whats coming out of them.

A thicker upper lip signals a woman who is more of a “giver” in a relationship. And not just in the perverted ways youre thinking of. Consequently, a thinner upper lip show someone who is more of a “receiver”. An overhanging upper lip that protrudes over her lower one could mean that she is, well, a predator. Shell bleed you dry, this one.